Soha Ali Khan explains why monogamy really the biggest challenge

Soha Ali Khan explains why having a long monogamous marriage can be so difficult

Soha-Kunal’s wedding: 10 years of love

Soha Ali Khan and Kunal Kemmu got married on 25 January 2015.

Before that, the two had dated for seven years.

Their fun-filled banter on social media always becomes ‘Couple Goals’.

But Soha told The Quint in an interview that monogamy—being in a long relationship with the same partner—is the biggest challenge in this whole story.

Extreme laziness and little hard work

Soha herself admits, “I am very lazy—not only in work, but also in friends and relationships.”

This laziness sometimes creates cracks in relationships.

She says that it is okay to be honest, but a little extra hard work is also necessary in a relationship.

Now she feels that she is working on herself, and this change is a big step for her.

Mumbai’s Noise

In today’s busy day-to-day lifestyle, most people are living in nuclear families.

Soha says, “Here, both husband and wife face stress of work, of home, of their personal space.

All the pressure is taken out on each other.” The feeling is that if stories were easy, then why are so many people separating?

Every day, you have to choose to stay together

Soha says, “Whenever you are in a relationship, know that it is a choice—and every day two people are deciding together that we are together.

Now people are giving priority to their happiness, and they don’t like to waste time where there is no happiness.”

Those special things about Kunal

Soha praised Kunal a lot – “He is hardworking, knows how to romance, and at least in marriage, he does not settle.

He keeps challenging my qualities. At the same time, he is intelligent, funny and very genuine, and on top of that, he is cute too – which is not bad!”

This is the reason why their relationship is fun, not just in Instagram captions but also in real life.

Pyaar Ka Safar: 2009 Se Ab Tak

The two started dating in 2009, then got engaged in 2014 and tied the knot the next year at Sharmila Tagore’s house.

On 29 September 2017, daughter Inaaya Naumi Kemmu’s entry completed the family.

Haqeeqat Ka Role Model

This story is similar to the truth of this era, where in the ping-pong game of love, we sometimes prefer comfort, but the struggle to stay together also makes us strong.

Soha Ali Khan’s honesty tells us that the real skill of long monogamy is not just in romance, but in putting in real effort every day.